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One of the most common questions brought into therapy is: “Is this normal? Do other people think about this too?” Human sexuality is remarkably diverse. Fantasies, kinks, and fetishes exist on a spectrum, ranging from very common to relatively rare. That variety doesn’t make someone broken or deviant. The better question is not “Am I normal?”  but rather: “Is this interest healthy, consensual, and in line with the life I want to live?” The Spectrum of Sexual Interests Underst

Few ruptures in an intimate relationship are as destabilizing as betrayal. Whether it involves sexual infidelity, emotional secrecy, or a...

Many of the men I work with appear accomplished, composed, and respected. They are providers and leaders; men who stay calm under...